Q. My 14-year-old son refuses to come to my home and I have no idea why. I’m supposed to see him a night or two during the week and every other weekend, but he just won’t come over. I don’t talk to ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: When I give someone a ride to a shared destination, I expect them to drive to my house, and then I’ll take them. One friend refuses, as it’s in the opposite direction of our ...